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Arya Samaj weddings are simple but rich in significance and are performed according to Vedic rites. Unlike other Hindu weddings, an Arya Samaj wedding does not involve lavish décor and are known for their simplicity and are usually inexpensive. The mantras chanted during the ceremony are translated into a language which the couple understands and the couple is explained the meaning of every mantra. An Arya Samaj wedding can be performed by any religion. The pre and post wedding rituals may vary depending on the regional and cultural background of the couple. Arya Samaj weddings do not believe in idol worship hence the wedding is performed with fire as the witness. The wedding ceremony is short and simple and usually lasts for about an hour.
Pre Wedding Rituals
Sangeet
This is a fun ceremony which is held at the bride’s home a few days before the wedding. This involves the bride’s female friends and relatives singing folk songs and celebrating the new phase which is going to unfold in her life.
Mehendi
This is a function for women of the family and the bride’s female friends which is held at the bride’s home, usually two days prior to the wedding. This first step is to purify the bride before she is decked for her big day..
Brahmbhoj
This ritual involves feeding sixteen Brahmins on the morning of the wedding. This is a very important and customary ritual practiced at all Arya Samaj Weddings. It is considered very auspicious and the Brahmins are usually served by family members.
Wedding Rituals
Varmala Ki Kriya
The wedding ceremony commences with the exchange of garlands between the bride and the groom. The bride garlands the groom first. The exchange of garlands demonstrates public acceptance of each other for a life time.
Swagat Vidhi
This is basically the welcome ritual conducted by the bride. The bride offers sacred water to the groom to wash his feet.
Madhupark Se Satkar
This is a ritual where the bride offers a mixture of curd, ghee and honey to the groom. The ritual indicates the commitment of the bride to feed and nurture her family.
Godan
This is one of the most sacred rituals followed by Hindus where a calf is given away as alms to a Brahmin.
Pratigya Mantra
This is a ritual where the bride and groom hold hands and take vows in front of the fire which is meant to make the marriage strong and sacred.
Parikarma
The couple circles the fire four times during this ceremony. The bride prays for the health and prosperity of her husband while the groom promises to protect his wife and respect all women.
